Two very different books.
One extraordinary exploration of the human mind.
Drawing on decades as a science communicator, technologist, author, artist, and caregiver, Payson R. Stevens explores intelligence from both ends of the spectrum from a loved one slowly losing memory to machines rapidly gaining capabilities.
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Payson R. Stevens
Payson R. Stevens is an award-winning science communicator, artist, writer, environmentalist, filmmaker, and a recipient of the Presidential Award for Design Excellence from Bill Clinton. He has appeared on CNN’s Network Earth and was an early TED speaker. The coauthor of two books, Embracing Earth: New Views of Our Changing Planet (Chronicle Books) and Meshuggenary: Celebrating the World of Yiddish (Simon & Schuster), he and his wife, writer Kamla K. Kapur, divide their time between the remote Indian Himalayas and San Diego, California.
Fifty years of Payson’s work: paysonrstevens.com · Artwork: energylandscapes.com
Front cover, The Wisdom of the Alzheimer’s Sage
A Son’s Journey Through Caregiving,
Identity, and Spiritual Transformation
Alzheimer’s disease is usually seen as an unforgiving tragedy; a thief that steals memory, identity, and the people we love, piece by piece. The Wisdom of the Alzheimer’s Sage asks a different question: what if, buried beneath the pain, there is also a deeper, almost mystical wisdom?
In this intimate memoir, Payson weaves together caregiving, philosophy, and spirituality drawn from his years caring for his mother, Naomi “Mamala” through her decline. Her cryptic, often startling words (what Stevens calls her “Zenheimer koans”) become unexpected teachings, reframing Alzheimer’s not only as loss but as a kind of ego surrender described across the world’s spiritual traditions. A Postscript carries the journey into a second round of caregiving, for his brother Larry, and the book closes with a curated Resources section for caregivers navigating their own path.
Told in short, episodic chapters, the book offers caregivers, families, and spiritual seekers a rare thing: permission to find beauty, connection, and even grace inside one of life’s hardest passages.
Mamala’s cryptic instruction “make everything the same different” became a kind of compass. Stevens began writing her words down, studying them the way one studies koans: paradoxical, illogical, and strangely illuminating. The parallels he found were not incidental. They echoed the ego-surrender described in Buddhist, Sufi, and contemplative Christian traditions alike a dissolving of the self that mystics have long called a kind of grace.
The book closes with a Postscript, “Round Two: All Things Larry,” in which Stevens confronts a second cycle of Alzheimer’s this time with his younger brother. Where his mother’s decline revealed serenity, Larry’s is rawer, angrier, less easily reframed a reminder that this path looks different for every family. A curated Resources section follows, with organizations, tools, and guideposts for caregivers navigating their own version of this journey.
“I never expected my mother’s disappearance into Alzheimer’s would become a spiritual awakening for both of us.”
Mamala can be silent for hours even days on end. All questions are either ignored or answered with a brief nod. Sometimes she smiles with the grin of a Zen master knowing all, knowing nothing. We can only wonder and guess what she feels, experiences, whether our voices are heard, the words understood, or our concerns of any import.
Her Alzheimer’s koans are filled with wisdom and absurdity. They bend reality, reconstruct language, reveal the inadequacy of logical reasoning.
I ask, “Do you know me?”
Of course! You’re you! It’s built into your chest like the heart of a tree and you’re looking to find it.
Looking at her photo album, she says: I’ve shot a movie that’s important… I’ll tell you when I have reached it and released all the sanctions.
What’s important, she tells me:
Make it all the same different and the changes will be true.
“Every ten or so years a book comes along and shows us, in the most elegant story form, how to meet and rise up from life’s most daunting challenges. This is that special book.”
Ken Druck, PhD author of The Real Rules of Life and Courageous Aging
“Payson Stevens has given us a gift by sharing the story of his family’s grief and healing. It is a model for all of us and how to honor the process of aging, dying and transformation.”
Stephanie S. Covington, PhD author of Beyond Trauma and Helping Women Recover
“If you know someone who is taking care of a loved one with Alzheimer’s Disease, this book is a must read! It shines a light in the darkness by providing insights that will help caregivers discover an inner journey of newfound wisdom and strength.”
Daniel Burrus author of the New York Times bestseller Flash Foresight
“This book is a lifeline for those who are walking alongside someone they love through the shadows of dementia. It doesn’t sugarcoat anything. It’s raw. It’s real. And yet, threaded throughout its pages is a deep tenderness an offering that will stay with you long after you read the last page.”
Ken Druck, PhD from the Foreword
Early TED speaker 1990, 1991
Front cover, Before AI Decides
Nine Ways to Stay Human
AI is already deciding more of your life than you realize: quietly, efficiently, and usually without your consent. Before AI Decides is not a book about whether AI is good or bad. It’s an orientation guide for the moment we’re in right now, before the defaults harden and the choices disappear.
Drawing on five decades of work at the intersection of science, technology, and human systems from early molecular biology and oceanography to pioneering interactive media for NASA, NOAA, and USGS, Payson identifies six warning signs that a system is already deciding for you, nine principles for protecting human judgment, three pressure points where delay becomes costly, and five habits you can put to use today.
Part field guide, part call to attention, the book helps readers stay present as AI enters ordinary life work, health, money, family, and the small daily choices that quietly add up to who decides. Read it in an afternoon. Return to it when decisions matter.
The book is organized in layers so it can be used, not just read. Part I tells real-world stories of AI quietly shifting from tool to decision-maker. Part II lays out the Nine Pillars. Part III names three pressure points where delay becomes costly, and Part IV offers five practices including “Become the Director of AI,” Stevens’ framework for staying the author of your own decisions rather than their audience. An appendix includes a proposed Declaration of Human Rights in the Age of AI.
Stevens used AI himself while writing the book openly, and on the record, in an Author’s Note that treats the tool the way the book asks its readers to: with attention, verification, and judgment intact. As he puts it: “Because when we stop owning decisions, AI begins governing us.”
“The risk is not intelligence itself. The risk is losing our shared ability to decide what should happen and to know who is responsible when it does.”
A veteran digital innovator makes the case for truth, fairness, and human oversight.
Read the essay on KatieCouric.com →“AI can generate information at scale. It cannot determine what is true. AI does not know what matters. People do.”
Before AI Decides: Nine Ways to Stay Human, Tarang Press, 2026“Human progress has always involved risk and reward. AI now confronts us with something new: autonomy at scale without visibility or reversal. That combination may mark a point of no return. Before AI Decides makes this danger clear and urgent.”
Lee Stein Entrepreneur & Inventor
“AI’s current trajectory threatens something fundamental: the human capacity to ask ‘why.’ This book offers a clear, grounded, and practical way to keep human intelligence alive and amplified in our encounters with AI.”
Jessica Seddon, PhD Senior Lecturer, Yale Jackson School of Global Affairs
“A clear-eyed guide for anyone trying to stay human in a world increasingly shaped and dominated by AI. Stevens lays out an essential framework for safeguarding our rights, our humanity, and our sanity.”
Charles M. Levine Former Vice-President, Random House
“Before AI Decides brings rare clarity to one of the defining challenges of our time. Stevens insists that vigilant human attention remain essential to guard against people being overridden as intelligent systems shape decisions that matter.”
Erik Viirre, MD, PhD Director, Center for Human Imagination, UCSD
“A clear-eyed wake-up call about protecting human judgment in an automated world. He is no AI doomster. His Declaration of Human Rights for the AI era and Nine Principles offer a practical framework for navigating AI with awareness and care.”
Anne Leer AI Expert on Policy & Governance
“Having given a lifetime helping humanity, acting with humility, wisdom, and integrity with big picture ideas, Payson Stevens’ seminal work on conscientiously incorporating AI into our lives is a gift beyond measure.”
Ken Druck, PhD Best-Selling Author
Author of the LinkedIn Newsletter “Chasing Agency” on AI, aging, human judgment, and what it means to remain human
Oped on Katie Couric Media: “Why We Need an AI Bill of Rights Before It’s Too Late”
Early TED speaker 1990, 1991
Author of the LinkedIn Newsletter “Chasing Agency” on AI, aging, human judgment, and what it means to remain human
Oped on Katie Couric Media:
“Why We Need an AI Bill of Rights Before It’s Too Late”
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Alzheimer’s Sage Press Kit → Before AI Decides Press Kit →Advance copies of The Wisdom of the Alzheimer’s Sage (pub. Nov 3, 2026) are available now for press and reviewers. Before AI Decides finished copies ship on request.
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